It seems like human nature to avoid owning up to a mistake. It always seems like we blame our issues on anything else to make ourselves feel more comfortable emotionally. But in reality, it is our fault!. In my opinion, it takes a very strong and courageous human being to point the finger at themselves and accept the fault. I've heard that when you point your finger at someone else, you point four other fingers at yourself. I think this notion of owning up to the fault is completely overlooked in society. But how does this relate to being pregnant? , and moreover how does this all escalate to abortion?
The key word for this argument is choice. Yes, the guy chose to get drunk with his girl friend, and therefore the drunkenness escalated the problem to an unwanted pregnancy. "but its his fault" says the girl, "he took advantage of me, because I was drunk". Wrong! The individual chose to get drunk and failed to understand the problems that can arise from drunkenness, such as drunk driving, unwanted pregnancy, fights, etc. Second, one should also be aware of their limits! The individual was obviously to drunk at this party to the point where being taken advantage of occured. Its not his fault, nor is it the alcohols, its your "choices fault" (if that makes sense). What I'm attempting to convey is that human beings make rational choices. Essentially we should weigh the pros and cons of becoming drunk (SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY!). yes it is fun being hammered, but to what extent? Should a guy be wasted to the point where he struggles to see and stand straight? I think not. But he chose to overdose on alcohol and he will probably suffer in the morning
"Pro choice" seems to contradict itself if I may take a critical theoretical approach to this blog entry. Basically, the choices that one makes lead to an unwanted pregnancy. Most of us would blame anything to make our pregnancy look like its faultless to us. The worst part is that because of the persons choice to become pregnant, the person is now debating if they should kill a human life, and consider it a lesson learned? Absolutely not! this makes me extremely frustrated! The best way to learn, in my angry opinion is to have that damn child and put them up for adoption. Who the hell gives you the right to end a life? Sure its your body, but you made the necessary choices to get pregnant, Whether it was unprotected sex or not, you still CHOSE to have sex. And when you have that child, I want you to look into their eyes and tell me if you could have aborted them? Because months ago that child was a little unwanted egg in your Fallopian tube. You could have ended the life of a revolutionary child who could have stopped world hunger. No you learn by having the child, and seeing them interact with other children, having a life. Contributing to society as a human being. We only get one shot at life, and I sure wouldn't have wanted to be the child who never had the chance breath. That child, who died because of a selfish mother.
Here is my logical advice (I am a man of mathmatics and logic!)
Allow me to present some "Klooster" advice:
My equation is simple: Don't have sex, don't get pregnant. Have sex: understand the consequences (and pleasures) that surround the notion of sexual intercourse. If you cannot do this, then you are obviously not ready to have sex, because in the end another life could be at stake.
Second, weigh your choices, if you choose to get drunk, than know your limits. Don't surround yourself with a bunch of bozo guys who simply want a lay. Have a designated driver, its all common sense really. If you know you might be having drunken sex, then for god sakes bring some condoms! Think before you drink.
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